Lord, Begin With My Heart
Prayer Begins With Me They had both been praying. She was asking God to change him. He was asking God to help her understand him. Both were sincere. Both were hurting. But neither had…
Praying for your spouse changes you before it changes anything else. Grace, patience, hurt, money, weariness and faithfulness, beginning with your own heart.
Praying with Love · Day 1Prayer Begins With Me They had both been praying. She was asking God to change him. He was asking God to help her understand him. Both were sincere. Both were hurting. But neither had…
Praying with Love · Day 2Prayer Before Reaction It started with one comment. Nothing big. Just a tone. A look. A short answer. Before long, both were upset. One raised their voice. The other shut down. One tried to…
Praying with Love · Day 3He forgot again. She responded sharply again. He went quiet. She felt unheard. And just like that, the same little thing became a big thing. Sometimes in marriage, we become experts at noticing what…
Praying with Love · Day 4They loved each other. But some days, love felt tired. The conversation took too long. The change was taking too long. The apology came too slowly. The healing felt too far away. And both…
Praying with Love · Day 5They were not trying to hurt each other. But the words came out hard. One sentence became another. One correction sounded like criticism. One complaint became an attack. And by the end of the…
Praying with Love · Day 6The house looked normal. The dishes were there. The laundry was there. The children’s things were there. The television was on. The phones were nearby. But peace was missing. No shouting. No big argument….
Praying with Love · Day 7They still lived in the same house. Still slept in the same bed. Still handled the usual things. Work. Bills. Children. Church. Family. But something felt different. A wall had started to grow between…
Praying with Love · Day 8They had expectations. Some spoken. Some silent. Some carried from childhood. Some shaped by what they saw in other marriages. Some built from dreams they had before the wedding day. But marriage did not…
Praying with Love · Day 9They were married. They shared a home. They made decisions together. They handled responsibilities. They cared for the family. But somewhere along the way, they stopped feeling like friends. They talked about schedules. Bills….
Praying with Love · Day 10They still loved each other. But affection had become less natural. The hugs were quicker. The kisses were fewer. The touches became mostly practical. Passing something. Moving around each other. Helping with a task….
Praying with Love · Day 11They were talking. But both were careful. Careful with what they shared. Careful with how much they revealed. Careful not to sound too needy. Careful not to say the wrong thing. Careful not to…
Praying with Love · Day 12They shared a life. They shared responsibilities. They shared a home. But intimacy had become complicated. Sometimes it felt close. Sometimes it felt distant. Sometimes it felt tender. Sometimes it felt pressured. Sometimes there…
Praying with Love · Day 13They had a decision to make. Not a simple one. There were bills to consider. Family needs. Work pressure. Children. Timing. Feelings. Fear. And both had different thoughts about what should happen next. One…
Praying with Love · Day 14They both wanted the home to be okay. But money kept creating tension. One was thinking about savings. The other was thinking about needs. One was concerned about spending. The other felt controlled. One…
Praying with Love · Day 15They loved each other. But love still needed covering. Because marriage does not only face what happens inside the home. It faces pressures from outside too. Work stress. Family opinions. Financial strain. Temptation. Unresolved…
Praying with Love · Day 16They were trying to work through something. But too many voices were involved. A friend had an opinion. A family member had advice. Someone made a comment. Someone took a side. Someone reminded them…
Praying with Love · Day 17They were arguing about today. But the pain sounded older than the moment. One word reminded her of something from years ago. One reaction reminded him of something he had never fully healed from….
Praying with Love · Day 18They both had dreams. Some spoken often. Some kept quietly in the heart. Some were delayed. Some changed with time. Some were placed on hold because life became busy. Work. Children. Bills. Ministry. Family…
Praying with Love · Day 19They were tired. Not only physically tired. Emotionally tired. Mentally tired. Spiritually tired. Tired from working. Tired from trying. Tired from carrying responsibilities. Tired from having the same conversations. Tired from hoping things would…
Praying with Love · Day 20Lamentations 3:22-23 They made vows. They meant them. They stood before God and promised love. For better. For worse. In joy. In difficulty. In plenty. In lack. In health. In sickness. But faithfulness is…
Praying with Love · Day 21They had prayed for many things. For patience. For healing. For peace. For wisdom. For protection. For affection. For strength. For faithfulness. And somewhere along the way, they began to realise something. Marriage was…