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Letting Go of My Money

Two people rarely arrive in marriage with the same instincts about money, and the difference is not the problem. Moving from mine and yours to ours, honestly and without blame.

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    The Danger of “My Money” Thinking

    Letting Go of My Money · Day 1One of the subtle challenges Joshua and I faced early in our marriage was operating with a mindset of “my money” instead of “our money.” At the time, it did not seem like a…

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    Different Money Mindsets

    Letting Go of My Money · Day 2One of the realities Joshua and I had to face in our marriage was that we approached money very differently. Joshua was a spender, while I was a saver. In everyday life, those differences…

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    When Money Becomes a Source of Conflict

    Letting Go of My Money · Day 3Joshua and I learned that money can easily become a source of conflict in marriage when there is a lack of communication and understanding. Some of our main triggers were spending habits and not…

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    Moving from “Mine” to “Ours”

    Letting Go of My Money · Day 4One of the most meaningful shifts Joshua and I experienced in our marriage was moving from a mindset of “my money” to fully embracing “our money.” That shift did not happen overnight. It began…

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  • An open wooden money box filled with coins beside a blank ledger and two pencils.

    The Power of Financial Transparency

    Letting Go of My Money · Day 5One of the areas Joshua and I had to grow in was financial transparency. In the early stages of our marriage, there were times when we were spending as if we were still single….

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    Building Unity Through Planning & Communication

    Letting Go of My Money · Day 6One of the most impactful changes Joshua and I made in our marriage was becoming intentional about planning and communication in our finances. Planning became pivotal in getting us on the same page. When…

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    Honouring God with Our Finances Together

    Letting Go of My Money · Day 7One of the most powerful shifts Joshua and I experienced in our marriage was learning to see our finances as something to honour God with, not just something to manage. This understanding began when…

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